Learning How To Suffer ; Knowing You Will Win
by Chazz Azz
This is a simple to write but hard to follow piece of sound advice.
In fact, it may be hard to believe what I am going to tell you but it is the truth and it always works.
I had to "take my own medicine" and do as I am going to suggest to you. That being said, here it is.
You must remember that heartache, emotional pain, sorrow, suffering from any loss that leads to tears and that unending feeling of endlessness and hopelessness is not going to have the final say so over you. Simply remember this. Pain is like a 12 round fight. I will say it again. Pain is like a 12 round fight. It doesn't matter if you walk, run, crawl, sit still, or even have to be carried back to "your corner" as long as you answer the bell each round you are guaranteed, yes guaranteed the victory and will stand over pain as it lays on the canvas before you.
You see pain has a time limit and the clock starts ticking and winding down as soon as you start to hurt. You simply have to remember to outlast it. Any healthy distraction will do. Yes, dare I say "Pray" also.
Finally and this is critical to remember. When those tears start to come and you say to yourself "Oh no, not again." just cry and cry all you can because that is "Gods Aspirin" for pain and if you try to stop the tears, you simply prolong the pain and it is as if you flushed the medicine from Gods' Hand down the toilet.
Chazz Azz @copyright 5/1/2012